Too little time to worry about this shit!! Let go.

To me, to love someone is to trust that you can do whatever they say and know that no matter how crazy it is you will be OK. That the person you love whom loves you back would not ever tell or ask you to do something that you will regret or be hurt by. It doesn’t matter what they ask you to do because if they truly love you they will never ask you to do something self destructive or hurtfull. This is something I look for in the women I go out with. If they are jealous of an ex wife who stands no chance of being with me, or children that will forever be a major part of my life then there is no sense in moving forward. I began dating a woman that I did not speak to about any of this. Her and I moved forward with our relationship and are now madly in love. She has said one or two things that say she is worried about the ex wife’s involvement in my life, but has not really pushed the envelope on it. It seems she understands that I am not interested in anyone else, that she is the one I want, but that she is still slightly worried about someone who was more than just a girlfriend. Understandably she is not a fan of someone her boyfriend spent every day and night of three years with, someone that he called his wife. That could be the problem that I have with the guy she spent every day and night of five years with. I know she wants me and she’s going nowhere, but with the amount of times I have been burned I have to wonder when I will ever stop worrying. It is the same with her, she knows I would never cheat on her, but she also worries about someone because of their title and how many times she has been burned. I get that.
Ya’ll, if you got someone like I do and you truly love them like I live my woman, give it up. forget about all the other bullshit and enjoy being with her. Love her and pray from the bottom of your soul that it lasts and you never have to say goodbye. Goodbye is forever. Remember that.